Dating a man with a young son
(Remember what I said about the right time, while they were little wasn’t the right time for me! You need to ask yourself can you love another women's children as your own and show no favoritism between your kids and his. Let this man find someone that can love him and his children.But whatever you do please, please, please put the best interest of these 2 kids first.But before becoming too judgmental, let's look at the biological facts.The male of the species hits his sexual prime in his late teens, a woman in her late forties. I mean, 19 goes into 50 a hell of a lot more than 50 goes into nineteen.I can only go by what I have seen first hand with my dad remarrying a woman 10 years younger than him.
It really seemed they should have thought more of how these things would have been handled prior to getting married and I would encourage you to do so as well. Personally, if it just doesn't come naturally to you to want to be a mother to his children (even more so considering their mother has passed) then I can't imagine why you would even want to date him. Not trying to deter you from continuing with this man as I don't know anything about him.
I just wanted to ask for opinions (thus reading previous comments from people this might be a little dangerous, he he). I have dated a couple of really great men, but not the “right” man at the right time.
I am a mother of a 21 year old son and an 18 year old daughter. In the last few months I have been seeing a man that has small children, 5 ½ and 3 years old.
That's not to say that this love connection is a no-go, though.
Just find out if your romance is right by asking yourself if you're in it for the right reasons. Are you avoiding older guys 'cause you have a bad track record of being hurt by them?